The WCTF Story
The
story I'm about to tell you is a human story. In January of 1987 I was
assigned to explore the possibility of opening a senior command officer
exchange between the Los Angeles Police Department and police of
Argentina's interior province of Cordoba.
I traveled to Cordoba with another LAPD Commander and met
friendly, human police officers. The Cordoba provincial police were
eager to show us their advancing professionalism and tactics. They had a
SWAT team, which among other functions operated in mountain lake rescue
operations by parachuting rescue officers into lakes. To have us observe
this tactic; they helicoptered us to the mountain lake resort village of
Carlos Paz.
When the helicopter touched down at lakeside, I could see
a group of several hundred school children behind a protective rope
waving their greeting. As the helicopter's engine shut down, I could
hear their song, which included the words "bienvenidos Americanos,"
which even in my beginner's Spanish, I could understand. More important,
I saw their beautiful smiles and their healthy, happy buoyant humanity.
I asked the Argentine pilot whether it would be proper to go greet them.
He said "go." I slipped under the rope and was swarmed by these children
who would not let me go until every last one of them welcomed me in the
Argentine tradition of a sweet greeting and kiss.
As a police officer for almost 32 years I have entered
many homes and situations and been greeted in a variety of ways, but
never like that. When I waved goodbye I saw their smiles and waves, but
not very clearly because a strange and uncontrollable fog had crept into
my eyes accompanied by a lump in my throat. This feeling has never quite
left me.
My own childhood was in Africa and Europe. A son of
Mennonite missionary parents in Zaire and later France, I experienced
many cultural traditions which have enriched my life. Among some French
families when someone dies, there is a custom of reaching into the
household clock and respectfully stopping the pendulum, marking the
stopping of time in the life of the loved one. The children of Carlos
Paz produced in me just the opposite. With the sweetness and innocence
of their unreserved affection and welcome, they reached into my heart
and started a pendulum moving that I honestly believe will not stop
until I die, so profound was their effect upon me.
After I returned to Los Angeles, at an official reception
for the Governor of the province of Cordoba, I encountered, by chance,
an Argentine physician named Ricardo Low. Dr. Low, in our casual
conversation, mentioned to me the life-threatening plight of a young
Argentine girl who was named Veronica Arguello. Dr. Low said Veronica
was dying of idiopathic cirrhosis of the liver in a town close to Buenos
Aires. The only hope for her was a liver transplant and, at that time,
medical science in Argentina had not yet arrived at the capacity for
liver transplants. I had never met Veronica, but somehow I saw her face
in that crowd of smiling children at Carlos Paz waiting to embrace
me...and the pendulum inside me was moving rhythmically, uncontrollably
it seems because I was compelled to action in ways to this day I don't
fully understand. Call it the power of children's love if you will.
Whatever it was, it had a compelling call to reciprocation.
I took a business card from Dr. Low at the reception,
leaned it against the phone in my office at our Police Headquarters
building and stared at it, knowing somehow that one phone call would
consume considerable energy. I delayed a day or so and finally picked up
the phone, punched in the numbers and was talking again to Dr. Low. "I
want to help that little girl" I said. "What does she need?" His answer:
"about three hundred thousand dollars for liver transplant surgery in
Pittsburgh". I took a deep breath. "Well," I said, "let's get started"
and we did.
We launched a "Veronica Committee" in Los Angeles,
created "Veronica-Grams" and tried to tell the world how much she needed
us. It was decided that Veronica should come to Los Angeles and through
the Veronica Committee we went to work on travel, housing, and
preparations. When she finally arrived with her mother Raquel and
brother Jose, she worked her way into the hearts of all who met her. She
celebrated a birthday in Los Angeles, her 12th. I remember giving her
the gift of a scenic jig-saw puzzle and watching her carefully
rewrapping the present so as not to waste the wrapping. The puzzle of
her life was to be a major one for all of us. The question was: how to
put together three hundred thousand dollars. We learned of a
high-quality Dallas, Texas children's hospital which assured us that the
costs would be about one hundred fifty thousand dollars. We all
agreed--Veronica should go to Dallas.
Through the help of the Dallas Chief of Police and his
staff, and through friendly contacts in local churches and communities,
the reception arrangements were made and I boarded an American Airlines
flight with Veronica and her family for Dallas. Now the Dallas Veronica
Committee was formed under Janie Hernandez, and the fund raising
continued. Corporations and individuals participated with activities
such as car washes and city-wide hair-a-thon by barbers. When we learned
that now one hundred thousand dollars was in the Veronica Trust Fund, we
celebrated. It's going to happen. It had to happen.
We were also warned that with complications the costs
could rapidly run up. And substantially. With that thought plaguing me,
I received a chance visit from Dick Hayward, a Constable from the
Ontario, Canada Provincial Police. Dick reached into his pocket when I
told him the story and handed me the dollars in his wallet, and along
with it some advice. He told me of the Hospital for Sick Children in
Toronto, Dick's home. He said the hospital had a compassionate
reputation and sometimes helped out needy children. I hardly waited for
Dick to leave my office before I called and spoke with Dr. Ricardo
Superina, the Director of the hospital's pediatric organ transplant
program.
Dr. Superina's assurance was that "yes, sometimes we do
things for purely compassionate reasons". These words brought hope and a
new challenge. Could Veronica continue her odyssey? How long was this
odyssey to be? When Dr. Superina called back with the news that the
hospital could accommodate Veronica with $80,000 and there would never
be additional fees, the decision was made. Convincing Raquel was another
matter. I met with her in Dallas. "Just one more trip" was our
assertion. "Toronto is best." In the end, Raquel gave me the gift of her
trust. By now she was referring to me as "the Commandante". "Commandante
says we should go to Toronto and that's what we will do" was her
attitude. And, so we made the last leg of the long trip--Berazategui to
Los Angeles to Dallas and now Toronto.
When I again joined this group of three after making all
the Toronto arrangements; immigration, housing, hospital and so much
more; we headed for Toronto. The Toronto greeting was stupendous. One
whole wing of the airline terminal was filled with news representatives
and Veronica's new friends. Every newspaper and every television channel
carried stories. Veronica became Toronto's new little resident, and the
city loved her. She spent Christmas there and waited as so many do for
an organ to be available of the same or similar size and same blood
type. The wait continued across the weeks and Veronica grew sicker.
In the beginning of March of 1988 the day arrived and she
finally went into the long anticipated liver transplant surgery. The
surgery was long and grueling as she struggled for her life. The scar
tissue from prior surgeries and degeneration made things worse for her.
In numerous phone calls across the miles I tracked her progress. The
surgery had not gone well. They were going to make another attempt.
Miraculously, another organ was available after the second transplant.
She remained comatose and they were going to go through it yet a third
time.
On March 6, 1988 the phone rang. It was the transplant
coordinator. Veronica's portal vein, the major vein leading to her liver
had collapsed and she had died. My daughter Katrina was watching me on
the phone. Seeing the look on my face, she quietly came behind me and
put her arms around me as the fog crept into my eyes and my heart. This
was impossible. So many plans, so much long anticipated joy, never to be
realized. My unspoken personal dream of watching her at her wedding
someday in Argentina slipped quietly away along with her precious life.
It simply did not compute. In a way, I will never fully accept it.
Veronica died with only one fear. She said she was not
afraid of dying. She just didn't want to die alone. And, of course, she
didn't. In that small surgery room were the spirits loving friends and
families in Buenos Aires, Los Angeles, Dallas and Toronto, along with
her own immediate family which now included her Dad who had recently
flown in. Her room was crowded with love and eager expectations.
Veronica's mother called me from the Dallas Fort Worth
Airport en route home to Argentina. During a layover the Dallas
Committee organized a memorial service in the transit terminal. At the
conclusion of the service she reached me in my office by phone. Through
an interpreter, Raquel said I was a saint. I denied it. She said I was
Veronica's second father. I accepted. I would always be their
Commandante. I was pleased. My photo would always be in their home. I
was humbled.
Veronica at least had her chance, she said, because of
me, but she would have died in vain if I did not continue helping the
other Veronicas of the world. Would I give her my promise that I would.
I said: "I promise." How could I stop that pendulum started by the
children of Carlos Paz?
I had no idea how to get started. I sought advice from
Dr. Robert Gale, who had performed the bone marrow transplants on the
children of the Chernobyl nuclear disaster. Dr. Gale suggested "don't
work on individual cases. You will run out of money and have to someday
say no". Instead he recommended "work on the conditions in the countries
where children lived so they won't have to make the trip to the United
States, overload U.S. waiting lists and go through the cross-cultural
trauma". With Dr. Gale's advice, we incorporated in 1988 as the World
Children's Transplant Fund--four words which captured our mission of
providing the opportunity for life-saving organ transplant surgery to
children everywhere.
Since 1988 when we incorporated we have pursued a clear
vision: "A world where children in need of organ transplants will have
the opportunity regardless of where they live". We always say "a kid is
a kid".
Our strategy is spelled out in our three T's: Technology
- for hospitals, Training - for surgeons and staffs, and Teaching - for
organ donor awareness. These needs vary widely among the nations of our
world.
We are pursuing these strategies by establishing regional
transplant centers to achieve our goal. We are now actively operating in
Argentina, Veronica's homeland. It was our first center and is becoming
our South American regional center. Our Central American Center in San
Jose, Costa Rica is operating as well. We are , of course, operating in
the USA where every day, another Veronica dies while waiting for an
organ because not enough people are willing to make the organ donation
decision for themselves, and on behalf of their children. Soon, we will
be in Mexico City, a massive region of its own, in the Middle East--in
Yerevan, Armenia and in Russia where the little ones of the Filotov
Children's Hospital await our help.
Who can say how many ships don't crash on the rocks
because a lighthouse is there. Similarly, it's hard to count, but we
know with absolute certainty that hundreds of children are alive today
because of Veronica. In Argentina alone laws have changed. Technology
has vastly improved. Surgeons and staffs are trained and the organ
donation rate is very high.
As we now look to the future we face massive obstacles,
but never any greater than the obstacles faced by Veronica. We will
carry on because of her, because of the promise, because of the Million
Dollar Round Table and its generous contributions, and because of so
many around the world who are joining us in this expedition for the
little ones.
And here are the little ones who are living and loving
and playing because someone cares about them. As you look at these faces
can't you see your own child? Isn't your child worth saving? Are these
any less worthy?
I am so glad I seized the opportunity with that first
phone call from my busy office. How busy do you have to be to stop
caring for these precious treasures?
Ladies and gentlemen, mesdammes et messieurs, damas y
caballeros, children are waiting for us and we have the rare opportunity
to bring joy to homes filled with tears.
As far as I am concerned, when the children of our world
die needlessly and without hope, a piece of us dies with them whether we
know it or not. And when we help just one to live, we find a small piece
of immeasurable, indescribable joy.
They need me and I need you.
Mark A. Kroeker
Founder & Chairman of the Board
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